How to stop being intimidating
That is, unless you want women to just start calling you a resting assh*le (“RA” for short).
Women won't stop at your face; we'll label all of you as that.
You know consciously, logically, we're all the same under the skin. But it's one thing to know this, and another thing to feel comfortable and at ease with who you are in any setting, with anyone who may be there.
Our status consciousness is part of our shared genetic inheritance, our evolved survival strategies, and you can't just shed it because you don't want it, any more than you can change the color of your eyes.
We've been talking for a while, maybe even tried the dating thing, and for whatever reason, you feel the need to inform me (as if I didn't already know) that I'm intimidating.
I applaud your honesty, but why are you telling me this?
I'm not talking about the woman you're too scared to talk to.
Here are the big ones: When someone is intimidated by really outgoing people it's that they're worried about having to talk to them and feeling really overwhelmed and like they won't be able to keep up or know what to say.Do you find yourself feeling intimidated by certain people, or certain kinds of situation?Has anyone ever deliberately tried to intimidate you - and succeeded?And we're ultra sensitive to signs or feelings that someone is pushing us down. They might be more (or less) skilled than you at something.When you see it written out in black and white, you can see how ridiculous this is. But this does not make them significantly different from you.