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Q: The boyfriend I met online still looks at dating sites — should I confront him? Don't be duped into thinking that online dating is some kind of free-for-all, where normal rules of courtesy don't apply.
Just because you met online, it shouldn't mean that anything goes and that he is entitled to surf for other girls while cooing sweet nothings to you down the phone.
Three days after I had our daughter, he was on two of his ex girlfriends’ Facebook pages! He thinks I overreact but I don’t because it hurts me! Hides his phone whenever someone calls and when I ask who it is, he says “don’t worry about it, you’re too nosy!
I couldn’t trust him around our daughter because his addiction as calls it, was so bad! ”He has been really distant lately, coming home from work and getting directly in the shower.
I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…
I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.
Some people might choose to treat online dating sites like portals to an alternate universe in which they can behave like an arse, with no repercussions, but that doesn't make it OK.
It's safest to assume that people behave online more or less the way that they behave all the time.
My husband and I have been together 3 years, married for 2! When I was around 5 months pregnant, I went through his phone and found him talking to girls but he said that they were just friends he worked with.
Since then, I have caught him on porn sites, dating sites, F*ckbook, live porn shows, and this & that.